Some will say things depending out of concern or that the genuinely like you but don't want you to suffer.
Some will say things as they were taught that fat people lack discipline, self control and deserve minimum at best..so some get into their feelings when you outshine them.
I had a coworker tell me to try to lose lbs so that I won't be like his coworker who broke a chair got injured and fighting to get workers compensation. I nodded as he spoke truth, some felt it wasn't really his business as it could be borderline EEO but just made me have a taxi hit the drive thru on my way home and block it all out overnight.
3 years